1. 学会敬畏规则,要么成为制定规则的人,如果成为不了,那就学会去适应规则。 期中考后,等待签证的时候很多同学都会来说老师“我觉得我这科不该是这个分数”,“我觉得我的分数应该更高”,“我觉得这个签证审核官有拖延症不给我发签证”等等。对自己的事情 上心本事好事,但需要明白的是你去了解的应该只有规则本身。明白之后,你需要做的就是努力,想尽办法在规则之内达到自己的理想结果,而不是抱怨甚至质疑批评制定规则的人,无论对错都没有意义,因为在这些事情里你注定成为不了制定规则的那个人。 Suggestion 1: Follow the rules or be the one who makes rules. After the mid-term examination and waiting for thepermission of visa, students always complain to me, such as “I just got thisgrade in this subject, which doesn’t make sense”, “This score doesn’t meet myexpectation”, “I suspect that the immigration office delayed my visa progresspurposely”, and so on. I must admit that spending time taking care of your ownbusiness is good. However, we should learn theprinciple and nature of things firstly. Based on this, we are ableto get the maximum profit in this game. Furthermore, it is nonsense toscold the rule maker, because your complaints and curses don’t make anydifference to them. We should be a smart player rather than a victim withresentment. Key words: complainto 对......产生抱怨 make sense 有意义的,合理的 after all 毕竟 scold 指责 suspect 怀疑 profit 利润